I Love You but I Love Me More
The title for this blog post comes from “Sex and The City”. They were also the very words that I uttered in my therapist’s office on January 2nd. However, what I said…
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You Stoop Down to Make Me Great
Every year during the 40 days of Lent I lead a small group of women on an adventure to celebrate 40 Days of Giving Back rather than giving something up for the…
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Love in the Time of Non Monogamy
There is an interesting concept making the rounds in polyamorous circles lately. It’s that of “casual love”. When I talk about “casual love” I do not equate it to “casual sex”, which…
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5 Easy and Cheap Dates
We all need time to ourselves and time with our significant others. Life gets busy. We have work, school, kids, etc. If you’re like me, you’re also trying to juggle all that…
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You Can’t Take the Sky from Me
The funny part about people giving advice is that they typically do it based on what they, themselves would want to happen. Recently I was handed a big truckload of a shitty…
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The First 48 hours
With 1 text message and a 13 minute phone call, my world fell apart. In that short time, the man I love with all of my heart told me that we were…
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Failure or Success: The Half Full Glass is Just Room for More Vodka
My marriage wasn’t a failure. My divorce was a success. People love to give their opinions on how much a failure others are. Especially when faced with beliefs that go against the…
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Should I Stay or Should I Go? The Truth About Denial
“She’s in denial.” “She is just being stupid.” “If he’d done that to me, I wouldn’t stay.” “She needs to get out now.” “She’s a complete fool if she doesn’t leave him.”…
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We Are Never Never Ever Getting Back Together
“Hey” was the entire text message. Not “hello”. No “how are you”. Just “hey”. I gave myself permission to ignore it. To go on with my day as if I never received…
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I Would NOT Be Friends with Me
Since the announcement of my divorce, I have sought some much needed counseling to help me work through and process the emotional overload and baggage that is weighing on my mind. It…
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