20 Sex Positive, Body Positive Blogs to Sink Into
On my very first Vivid & Brave post, I came out of the bi girl closet, waving my sparkly rainbow flag of pride. And I didn’t stop there, with sweaty palms and jittery…
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She Gave Herself Permission
She gave herself permission To be successful today as she was. To make her voice louder than her ancestors, family and obligation. To pursue her gifts and talents without shame She gave…
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The Case for Daily Orgasms
When’s the last time you orgasmed? I know right out of the gate; wham bam thank you man. I guess if you’re bristling then you really need to continue reading; please, trust me…
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What Do You (Really) Want? Getting in Touch with Deeper Desire
Years ago, my therapist asked me the question: “What do you want?” It seemed like a simple enough question at the time, so I thought for a second and answered with things…
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Shame-aholics Anonymous
Fat shaming used to be the “in” thing. Then it was skinny shaming. Now it’s everything shaming. Body shaming, fit shaming and slut shaming…and it’s not just for women anymore. There are…
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Let Your Geek Flag Fly
When I was in grade school, being called a “geek” was an insult. It wasn’t something popular or smart. It was a term reserved for loners and people who wore glasses and…
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The Sisterhood: An Open Letter to Survivors of Sexual Assault
Dear Sister, The word you will use is sexual assault. It is clean, clinical. It is easy to say without really thinking about what it means. It means something awful, something dark,…
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How to Milk a Birthday for Every Drop
Pulling away from my house with the windows down on a beautiful sunny Sunday grooving alongside my playlist to the tune of Alicia Key’s “This Girl is On Fire,” one would have…
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5 Steps to a Better Relationship
While many articles have been written on how to improve your relationships, few are ever written from a polyamorous perspective. I believe I’ve stated before that as soon as I start discussing…
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Throwing Open the Closet Doors and Coming Out
For this, my very first post for Vivid & Brave, as an AVENGER of sexiness, I’ve been stuck. As a lover of sex and sensuality, this seemed silly. There are so many…
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