All Relationships Benefit from Poly Principles
I believe that each person should live their life exactly as they choose. One of my life choices has been to love more than one person and to identify myself as polyamorous….
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The Friend Zone… I’m Over It
We all know what guys commonly refer to as the “Friend Zone”. And who hasn’t driven around after a breakup belting Biz Markie’s “Just a Friend”? (No one? You mean I’m the…
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I’ll Have What She’s Having
Your sensual feminine energy is the undercurrent that fuels every other aspect of your life. It is the X factor in the iconic “I’ll have what she’s having” scene from When Harry…
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Oxygen Masks- Taking Time for Self Care
By the time my daughter turned 10, we’d been on over 150 airplanes together. And without fail, every time we prepared for take off, the flight attendant would come and personally remind…
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It’s Not Grey, It’s Glitter
My first grey hair sprung up at age 21. I remember staring at the mirror in my college apartment and thinking, “What. The. Hell?” I plucked it out and went on with…
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Breast Friends of the Busty, Bold, and Beautiful
I love my boobs. I really do. It was not always this way. From my teen years into my mid-20s, I tried to hide in oversized thrift store sweaters and bound my…
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Rubber Chickens & Bipolar Disorder
DISCLAIMER* For the love of Zoloft, do not alter or discontinue your mental health care plan without the express supervision of a mental health care professional. In January of 2014, I found…
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Think the Opposite
I stood in front of the mirror the other day nit-picking my every flaw. Too flabby here. Too fat there. I have potholes for pores. My nose is too big. Man, I…
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The Power of Touch
As I have written before, I spent almost 5 years in a nearly affectionless relationship. It wasn’t a complete drought. He would hug me when I forced it on him. Occasionally we…
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5 Things My Divorce Taught Me About Dating
Everyone learns from life experiences differently, and no two divorces are the same. There are valuable lessons to be learned while going through a divorce, even the simplest of ones. Sure most…
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