Why We Kill Relationships & What To Do About It
I always wonder how both men and women can screw up relationships so easily. We start out any relationship, with the best of intentions. We are excited, giddy to be noticed, and…
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Outgrowing My Mother
I’ve often said that the relationship between mothers and daughters is one of the most complicated we will have in our lives, and the one I have with my mother is no…
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Want to Boost Your Sex Life? Try Gratitude
Stuck in a sex life that bores you to tears? Or not enjoying a sex life much at all these days? It happens to the best of us, I promise you. It’s…
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Disappearing Friendships
Have you ever had a close friend just stop talking to you and pretend you no longer exist? Maybe I am the only one that is lucky enough to have it happen….
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Falling in Love With a Broken Heart
I believe that conventional wisdom says that you cannot or at a minimum should not start a new relationship when you are still mourning an old relationship. In the abstract, one can…
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Missed Communications
In polyamorous life, whether you like it or not, you learn to communicate. You learn to communicate a lot! We dissect issues and we analyze things to death to get everyone in…
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All Relationships Benefit from Poly Principles
I believe that each person should live their life exactly as they choose. One of my life choices has been to love more than one person and to identify myself as polyamorous….
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The Friend Zone… I’m Over It
We all know what guys commonly refer to as the “Friend Zone”. And who hasn’t driven around after a breakup belting Biz Markie’s “Just a Friend”? (No one? You mean I’m the…
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The Power of Touch
As I have written before, I spent almost 5 years in a nearly affectionless relationship. It wasn’t a complete drought. He would hug me when I forced it on him. Occasionally we…
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5 Steps to a Better Relationship
While many articles have been written on how to improve your relationships, few are ever written from a polyamorous perspective. I believe I’ve stated before that as soon as I start discussing…
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