How to Open Up Your Life
One of the main comments I receive when discussing my polyamorous lifestyle is almost always, “Oh, I could never do that.” I agree. An attitude like that about any subject will definitely…
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The First 48 hours
With 1 text message and a 13 minute phone call, my world fell apart. In that short time, the man I love with all of my heart told me that we were…
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Who Will You Write To Today?
Twenty years ago, I used to watch for the mailman every day. My excitement was due to an anticipated letter from a pen pal. We would send each other short notes full…
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Accidental Polyamory Saved My Sanity
Growing up, I tried to adhere to strict Christian values. Remember those WWJD bracelets that were popular mid-90s? I had one in just about every color. More than once in high school…
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5 Love Languages
Marriage is hard work. Balancing marriage, careers and children at the same time is even harder. Many times we become so focused on everything else going on we forget the importance of…
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What a High Conflict Divorce Mediator Wants You to Know About Mediation
Note: This is according to Minnesota. Other states have different rules and laws, stated at deanhineslawyer.com. This should not be substituted as legal advice. This post is for information purposes only. As…
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The #1 Tip for Better Sex
If you’ve ever picked up a Cosmo, you know that there are apparently many ways to have the “best sex ever”, and every month they find a new tip, position or bellesaboutique…
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Learning to Argue
I have been thinking about how couples argue and fight over the last few weeks. I have been in a few long-term relationships – in some fights were handled well and in…
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When Forever Has a Time Limit
He exploded into my life like a whirlwind, changing everything I believed. There was a connection deeper than anything I’d ever encountered, a bond that still proves nearly impossible to break. But…
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The Best Advice: Don’t Give an Ultimatum
When it comes to love, it’s not always about an either or. Being raised a conservative Christian, I believed that there was one person who would love you and only you forever…
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