To the Thin Women of the World – I’m Sorry
I am just going to get this out of the way – I am not at my ideal BMI. I have to shop in the Plus section of the stores most of…
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The First 48 hours
With 1 text message and a 13 minute phone call, my world fell apart. In that short time, the man I love with all of my heart told me that we were…
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Hi! I’m Brandy, and I’m an Addict
It’s time I was honest and open up about a part of me that I have been hiding for quite some time. I am an addict. An addict of many things really….
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On Dating – Being Thankful That I Don’t Have To…
I often tell my husband– no, thank him– for the fact that I’m married. I mean, don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t only his decision. We entered into a mutually agreed upon…
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Failure or Success: The Half Full Glass is Just Room for More Vodka
My marriage wasn’t a failure. My divorce was a success. People love to give their opinions on how much a failure others are. Especially when faced with beliefs that go against the…
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Pleasure – How about now?
How about now? This very minute this second. Stop what you’re doing and take a breath. Close your eyes. Fully exhale. Now open your eyes and consider this question: what in your…
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The Power of the Necklace
I turned 40 on March 16, 2013. This was during one of the darkest times of my life. About six weeks after my birthday, I went on a trip with two friends…
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“You’ll Find Him When You Stop Looking…” | Five Things to Stop Saying to Your Single Friends Right Now
I’ve been single now for what feels like an eternity, but is in actuality about four years. Through those four post divorce years, I’ve dated casually, seriously, taken long breaks from dating,…
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How To Feel Good About Yourself When You Don’t Feel Good About Yourself
My career is based upon helping women feel confident and beautiful. I pride myself in helping others find their beauty and get their mojo back when they feel they’ve lost it. To…
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Should I Stay or Should I Go? The Truth About Denial
“She’s in denial.” “She is just being stupid.” “If he’d done that to me, I wouldn’t stay.” “She needs to get out now.” “She’s a complete fool if she doesn’t leave him.”…
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