The Power of the Necklace
I turned 40 on March 16, 2013. This was during one of the darkest times of my life. About six weeks after my birthday, I went on a trip with two friends…
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“You’ll Find Him When You Stop Looking…” | Five Things to Stop Saying to Your Single Friends Right Now
I’ve been single now for what feels like an eternity, but is in actuality about four years. Through those four post divorce years, I’ve dated casually, seriously, taken long breaks from dating,…
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How To Feel Good About Yourself When You Don’t Feel Good About Yourself
My career is based upon helping women feel confident and beautiful. I pride myself in helping others find their beauty and get their mojo back when they feel they’ve lost it. To…
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Should I Stay or Should I Go? The Truth About Denial
“She’s in denial.” “She is just being stupid.” “If he’d done that to me, I wouldn’t stay.” “She needs to get out now.” “She’s a complete fool if she doesn’t leave him.”…
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We Are Never Never Ever Getting Back Together
“Hey” was the entire text message. Not “hello”. No “how are you”. Just “hey”. I gave myself permission to ignore it. To go on with my day as if I never received…
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Jealousy – The Struggle is Real
For a long time I’ve talked about owning my own issues and working through them. I’ve written several articles about polyamory for Vivid and Brave now. Many of them discuss jealousy, dealing…
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Accidental Polyamory Saved My Sanity
Growing up, I tried to adhere to strict Christian values. Remember those WWJD bracelets that were popular mid-90s? I had one in just about every color. More than once in high school…
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Why I’m Not Angry at My Mom or Her Religion
I do not dislike my mother. She brought me into this world and has loved me all of my life. I miss her. I miss our Scrabble games. I miss her phone…
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The #1 Tip for Better Sex
If you’ve ever picked up a Cosmo, you know that there are apparently many ways to have the “best sex ever”, and every month they find a new tip, position or bellesaboutique…
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5 Steps to a Better Sex Life (Hint: They Are Not Easy)
I feel as if so many of these articles have been written, but not many are every from a polyamorous perspective. I believe I’ve stated before that as soon as I start…
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