It’s Just An Online Fantasy Life: Running an Online Business

What you’re doing isn’t important.

You know, running your dream business, working on your dream life, serving others and transforming lives, setting fantastic examples for the next generation, inspiring others, being yourself, living your full potential…

It’s not important.
In fact, because you do it online, it’s just a fantasy.
None of it is “real”.

Because of course for it to be real, you’d have to go out of the house and do it for someone else at a job.
Because we all know that the only way to get by in life is to get a traditional job.
Because it’s not about the transformations, it’s about playing the role.

Heck, even just being a stay at home mum that doesn’t have any career wishes is more real than your online fantasy life.

I mean, you’re pretty much just playing The Sims right?
A virtual life, fantasizing.

Just an Online Fantasy Life

You know I’m being sarcastic.

But your family isn’t. Your friends aren’t. They’re dead serious when they ask you how’s your online “thing” going. Or when your husband doesn’t get that you’re doing actual work that makes actual money that pays for your actual bills and changes actual lives.

It’s all a fantasy to them. Because they just don’t get it.
And as frustrating as it is and as much as you try and argue your point, they probably never will.

And you know what?

It’s ok. They don’t have to get it. Sure life would be easier if they did. It would be a LOT easier.
But they don’t have to get it.

As long as you know that what you are doing is on purpose, YOUR purpose and that you’re changing lives for the better?
Fuck what your friends and family think of you and your choice to live your life.

You’re here to share your message, to share your truth and inspire those that need you, to share their message and their truth as well.
You’re here to be yourself. To live your life every day with passion and love and to back yourself. Because you’re worth it.

You’re here to be unfuckwithable.
So unfuckwithable that whatever negative crap even those who are meant to love you most dish out doesn’t jolt you from your purpose.

unfuckwithableWhenever you’re on a high, people will try and bring you down – because according to them, you’re not meant to be there, you’re meant to be on the same wavelength as them or even lower.

But you know better, right?

I hope you do. Or at least I hope you do now.

Because let me tell you something, being an entrepreneur with an online business is like being a whole other species. Those that aren’t part of our species just don’t REALLY get us.
Have you noticed?

And because we’re not the same as non-entrepreneurs, they try to make us be like them so that they can understand us and so we’re more familiar.

It’s scary to those who don’t live on the same planet as us to see us live how we do.
To see us operate with a crap tonne of drive, passion and fervour for our work, because to them, work isn’t meant to be fun or transformative or inspiring – it’s just meant to pay the bills. So even if right now you’re not bringing in enough money to pay the bills but you’re still diligently working on your business every chance you get? That is just CRAZY PANTS to “normal” people.

But you’re not here to lead them or even to please them. You’re here to DO YOU and to BE YOU.

Your revolution that you’re leading IS IMPORTANT.
And it IS REAL.

Don’t let anyone jolt you from leading your revolution and living your purpose.

You’ve got this,

Phillipa xx

Online Fantasy Life

Phillipa Kiripatea

Phillipa Kiripatea is a marketing coach for entrepreneurs who love to dream big. Through her free mastermind group, The League of Women Who #DreamBig she inspires and motivates women to dream bigger and to make their big dreams a reality.

Phillipa believes in enlightened connection and speaking your truth. She hates small talk. Loves vulnerability.

She's also a single mother to 3 boys and does not have all her shit together.

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