I Love You but I Love Me More
The title for this blog post comes from “Sex and The City”. They were also the very words that I uttered in my therapist’s office on January 2nd. However, what I said…
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Guilty Relaxation
In August of 2015, Princess Cruises released the results of a survey they conducted. The survey revealed that over half (54%) of Americans spend their days off dealing with personal obligations such…
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You Stoop Down to Make Me Great
Every year during the 40 days of Lent I lead a small group of women on an adventure to celebrate 40 Days of Giving Back rather than giving something up for the…
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Take the Yoga Challenge and Heal Your Body, Brain, and Spirit
On a cold February morning, my life changed forever. Walking down the driveway of my building, I slipped on a patch of sheer ice. My feet went straight up, and I landed…
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Making a House a Home… Again
I have lived in my house for almost 12 years. I have lived here longer than I have lived in any other place. This house has seen 2 husbands, a couple of…
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Why You Have to Have a Best Friend
If there is anything I can impart to my daughter, it’s to find her best friends. The temptation in adulthood is to believe that that’s not possible – that it was easier…
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Love in the Time of Non Monogamy
There is an interesting concept making the rounds in polyamorous circles lately. It’s that of “casual love”. When I talk about “casual love” I do not equate it to “casual sex”, which…
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Learning to Live Wild
When I was 36 I found myself back in college. It was the beginning of what ended up being six years of college. It was such a new thing for me that…
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Fake it Until Surviving isn’t Enough Anymore
I was recently approached and told that I was doing an amazing job of having it all together. I tried to be kind and not laugh directly at the nice lady, but…
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Safer Sex in Polyamory
As with monogamous relationships, there comes a point in polyamorous relationships where you discuss safer sex. Hopefully it’s before you become intimate with someone and when you still have a chance to…
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