Fat Mama Hiding
When my oldest, Alexa, was about 3 years old, we were going through old pictures of my husband and I while we were dating and then our wedding and then when we…
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Missed Communications
In polyamorous life, whether you like it or not, you learn to communicate. You learn to communicate a lot! We dissect issues and we analyze things to death to get everyone in…
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Getting Unstuck
I’m relatively sure at this point in my 32 years of life that the most uncomfortable place you can possibly be is any time in life you find yourself feeling stuck. Trapped….
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The Road to Self-Discovery
I am a mom, a sister, a daughter, an aunt, a friend, but those all just seem to be titles I hold. They don’t necessarily represent me! I have realized that I’m…
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Charleston, 9:05 p.m.
9:05 pm. That is the time last Wednesday night when a racist decided to open fire in the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church killing 9 people and shattering a community and a…
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What the Mouse that Sat on My Shoulder Taught Me
Everything happens for a reason. Whether you like it or not. You’ve got two choices: get the lesson the first time or endure the “punches” till you do. Uh-huh, it’s that fucking…
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No Wonder We’re Feeling Disconnected
Today I woke up to find there we had a power cut. I used to live in Pembrokeshire, South Wales, deep in the national park surrounded by woodland, so I was no…
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Are You a Recovering Perfectionist Too?
I am a recovering perfectionist. Recovering? Like an alcoholic? Yep. I’m addicted to being perfect, and I’m currently working on striving for progress, not perfection. Some days are better than others. Some…
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My Mascot Of Immaturity
Who let me adult? I can’t adult. As adults, we are under so much pressure in our day to day lives to ‘Adult Correctly’. We pay bills, engage in social graces, clean…
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All Relationships Benefit from Poly Principles
I believe that each person should live their life exactly as they choose. One of my life choices has been to love more than one person and to identify myself as polyamorous….
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